When we think of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV), our first thoughts are the horrors of physical assault. But damage to property and loss of property also have psychological and economic effects on individuals and the larger community.
Control over personal property and damage to it are bellwethers of domestic violence. It is well-known that abusers often destroy items that are deeply personal, such as photos or family keepsakes. These actions terrorize victims. Destruction of property can also cripple a person’s ability to care for themselves or their children.

Lack of transportation is one way that abusers isolate and control their victims. When one partner purposely damages a car, getting to work or to see family suddenly becomes impossible. Vandalizing tools or even clothing can sideline job options. Sabotaging computers affects access to information and education, especially for children in school. In these ways, property loss can have long term impact on a person’s ability to get out of an abusive relationship and get back on their feet.
In 2024, according to the Ohio Domestic Violence Network (ODVN), the loss of property due to IPV in Ohio was more than $11 million. That’s more than the cost incurred by policing IPV. In Lucas County, the loss of property was $402,566. That is the sixth highest cost among the 88 counties in Ohio. The burden of replacing property can be especially daunting in Lucas County because it has the lowest median income of the largest counties in Ohio.
While there are lawful options in the case of physical assault, there is surprisingly little help in the case of property damage. Home insurance does not usually cover intentional damage to personal property. And it’s not necessarily a crime, either. This lack of institutional support gives victims little recourse, adding to desperation and loss of hope.
Reducing Intimate Partner Violence must include recognizing the impact of property loss. Both the victims and institutions helping to address IPV need to be aware of and respond to destruction of property. It is a significant part of the larger picture.
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