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Love Shouldn’t Hurt: Raising Awareness About Teen Dating Violence

We often think of domestic violence as an adult issue, but 1 in 3 U.S. teens and young adults experience physical, sexual or emotional abuse at the hands of their romantic partners.

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (TDVAM)—a time dedicated to raising awareness about unhealthy relationships and empowering young people with the knowledge and resources to build safe, respectful partnerships.

Teens going through trouble in their relationships don’t typically discuss those issues with their parents or teachers. Instead, they seek help and advice from their peers, which is why it’s so important to prepare them directly with information and resources.

LoveIsRespect.org has good resources on healthy relationships and personal safety geared toward teens and young adults. They also provide resources to help parents and teachers support a young person dealing with a troubled relationship.

Our Executive Director, Deidra Lashley, recently presented to some high school classes about teen dating violence. The discussions included warning signs to look for and tips for supporting their friends. Several students sent letters thanking Deidra for her time and the knowledge she shared.

  • “After learning about some of the red flags, I was able to talk to my friends and parents about my relationship.”

  • “I took the power to end my relationship, even though it was tough. I feel better knowing I don’t have someone trying to control what I do.”

  • “One of my friends was going through a relationship she was unsure about and I was able to help her see some of the red flags because of your presentation.”

  • “I learned a lot about toxic relationships, teen violence, and how important it is to say something if you see something.”

  • “It’s funny that you came to present just after my friend told me what’s been going on in her relationship. I really appreciate your advice!”

Teen dating violence affects millions of young people each year, yet it often goes unrecognized. By fostering open conversations, promoting education, and providing support, we can help prevent abuse and create a culture where healthy relationships thrive. This month serves as a crucial reminder that everyone deserves to feel safe, valued and respected in their relationships.

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